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#15 First Yuletide/Christmas at the Homestead

Winter Holidays at the Homestead

Our perfect tree, adorned with both colored and white lights, ornaments from years of collecting and glass icicles. It was so very beautiful.

Our perfect tree, adorned with both colored and white lights, ornaments from years of collecting and glass icicles. It was/is so very beautiful. (We still haven’t taken it down!)

The Homestead crew, plus Kim’s brother and sister-in-law, Matt and Chelsea, celebrated the Winter Holiday on Christmas Eve with a dinner of the most delicious roasted, grass-fed, beef tenderloin wrapped in bacon (from Costco) along with other yummy offerings.

Later, we exchanged our Secret Santa gifts, drank eggnog and played games late into the night. Oh, and we laughed a lot!

It is so delightful having JD and Kim, as well as mom Robin sharing the Homestead with us! We are more than grateful!

Christmas Day was spent with our Sacramento Family, where Debra hosted a wonderful day of good company, good food and good fun!

Happy FIRST Christmas June Bug!!

Our front entrance, decked out for the Holidays with twinkly-lights, wreaths and snow.

Our front entrance, decked out for the Holidays with twinkly-lights, wreaths and snow.

 

On Christmas Eve, it snowed! Well, it was really a downpour of soft tiny snowballs! Still—lovely.

On Christmas Eve, it snowed! Well, it was really a downpour of soft tiny snowballs! Still—lovely.

 

JD and Kim

JD and Kim on the Homestead

Morgan, momma Brooke and Baby June! June Bug's first Christmas!!

Morgan, momma Brooke and Baby June! June Bug’s first Christmas!!

JD and Courtney

JD and Courtney at Debra’s for Christmas Day.

 

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#14 The Hunt for the Perfect Tree

By Ellys

The Homestead crew loaded into the minivan and headed out to Apple Hill on Saturday to find the perfect Yule tree.

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Apple Hill tree farms

The day was crisp but sunny.

Bundled up and ready for the hunt

Bundled up and ready for the hunt

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The perfect tree!

After hiking through the forest of trees, Lynnie found the perfect tree, already cut, near the gate.

 

We had so much fun! Ended our day at on of our favorite restaurants: Bones Road House, in Pleasant Valley.

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http://www.bonesroadhousehangtown.com/

We highly recommend this fun and funky place.

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#13 Thanksgiving at the Homestead

By Ellys

The week before Thanksgiving, the extended weather forecast called for heavy rain AND snow for the day before and during the Holiday. For many of the 17 family and friends, planning to celebrate with us, this would be their first visit to the Homestead and as previously mentioned, our road becomes quite dicey when inundated by weather! What if they got stuck, or worse yet, slid off the road!

It was clear that if the predicted weather materialized, we would have to call off the gathering. However,LV given the changeability of the weather around here, we decided to wait for a day or two, hoping wunderground.com might reconsider. Sure enough, by Monday, the forecast had shifted to predicting a sunny Thanksgiving and thankfully, they were right. Thanksgiving morning presented itself dressed in sunshine and wonder.

The day was lovely and everyone arrived without mishap. Counting the Homestead members, we had 22 family and friends here to celebrate! (It was wonderful to have you all here!)

Lynnie made the 20 pound turkey and everyone brought amazing offerings, including delicious appetizers, withanksgiving 2015ne, copious amounts of the most scrumptious mashed potatoes (my favorite), homemade dressing, vegis, salads, pies.

OMG, it was a feast; what wonderful company and all in all a delightful day.

OXOXOXOXO to all!

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#12 The White Stuff

By Ellys

It had been raining all day and just as we thought it was clearing, a front of black clouds roiled up the ravine and the rumblings of thunder grew louder and louder.

“Jeez, it’s pouring out there,” I said to Lynnie and went over to the window. “Wait a minute. That’s not rain!”

By the time I got to the front door and threw it open, the porch out front was white with sleet and tiny snowballs bounced and peppered the deck and yard.first white stuff

Raleigh and Reba ran out, sliding and sniffing, quite fascinated, having never seen the white stuff.

The back deck, too, was covered with white and stayed that way till the sun came out the next day.

What fun!

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#11 If Life is a Game…

this is life!If life is a game, this is the one we have been ‘playing’ for the past 8-9 months! Throughout this process, tiles have needed to shift, and then slid back again. Nothing has happened in a linear manner. From prepping to sell the place in Santa Rosa, having it on market and the heartbreak of failed offers, to finally selling, then buying the Homestead and moving to Benicia before we could finally move in for real—then moving and fixing and moving more, to say nothing of the repairing, building and cleaning, weed eating and brush scrubbing and continual unpacking.

Every time, at least two or three tiles had to shift for any one of these steps to be completed. It has been so disconcerting, frustrating and often confusing. As with this game, many of the tiles couldn’t be slid into a final place—but still had to move for the next step to be made– then moved back and then again…on and on.

Right now the biggest tile that needs to move is the pile of boxes in our downstairs project room so we can turn it into a slumber party room for Thanksgiving! But before I can unpack the art supplies in the boxes I have to put up the tall wooden shelf unit (one my dad build years ago) and it is a bit too tall to fit under the high utility shelves. So, an inch needs to be cut off the base in order for it to fit…but there are boxes sitting on the shelves and, right now, there is no place to put them…You get the picture?

And we continue, headed toward the goal of being ALL unpacked and somewhat settled! And more and more it is happening, one tile at a time!

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#9 The Storm from Hell!!

By Ellys

storm10   (click here–wait for it–turn the sound up–wait for it!)

The flash that woke me at 3:20 this morning was followed by the  booming of thunder–some of the loudest thunder, I have ever heard.

Actually, as much as I have always loved thunder and lightening, I have never experienced such an intense and LONG storm. The video clip (click on ‘storm10’ above) is from before it heated up and when it did, the thunder shook the whole house!

For three hours, a full minute did not pass without lightening flashing and at times it was more like a fireworks display! The thunder was nearly continuous, echoing in the distant, rumbling across the far ridge or crashing directly overhead.

Needless to say, I’ve been up since 3:20 this morning–YAWN! –so I’ll probably hit the sack early!

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by | October 17, 2015 · 3:24 pm

#8 Kelly and Ghost

By Ellys

One morning, the first week we werkelly and ghoste in residence here at Lofty View Homestead, a loud squawking noise woke us. It was early. The sun only peeked above the ridgeline.

Still in that place of hyper caution–you know, what with all the dangerous wild life in the area– I crept onto the deck outside our bedroom. I have heard that mountain lions often sound like screaming and—and—that they often hunt at dawn. I shivered, grateful the deck has no stairs to the ground.

Peering over the railing, I breathed relief at the sight of two peafowl strutting below, calling to each other. One was dark, with the typical iridescent green and black on the neck and tail feathers. The other was almost entirely white, with only bits of darker feathers. Both had the characteristic top knot on their heads.

“Hey look, Lynnie,” I called with great relief, “we have peacocks or hens or whatever they are…”

Of course, with all my commotion, by the time she got through the slider and onto the deck, the two had vanished around the corner.

“See that blue plastic bin there?” She pointed to the middle level of the deck. “There’s chicken scratch in there. I’ll bet the previous owner fed the peacocks.”

I opened the container and threw out several handfuls of feed, hoping the birds would come back around the corner. They didn’t. At least not then. But, every day for the next several weeks, their squawking announced the return of the two pea fowl.

Then one morning, they didn’t come. The next day, only the dark one showed and that afternoon we found a pile of large white feathers below the deck. We were all upset, but concluded this is what we have to expect– living on country property.

For days the dark one, who JP named Kelly (an androgynous name since we still aren’t sure if it’s a hen or a young cock) moped around, calling and calling. Then it stopped coming around at all. I kept throwing scratch out, but he didn’t show. We figured he’d gone the way of the wild, as well.

Then, just the other day, we woke up to the sound of familiar squawking. I ran to the window and, sure enough, the peafowl–both of them–were strutting up the drive, as big as life!

We concluded that the white one, after a narrow escape from becoming that midnight meal, flew away and hunkered down, until it recovered.

JP, appropriately dubbed it, Ghost. We are all thrilled she found her way back!

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Though the two don’t come by every day, they are still regular visitors to the Homestead!!

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#6 HooRay! Writing Again: Whose Time Has Come

By Ellys

WTHC Cover part one

Not only has this move been exhausting, it has completely occupied my time to the place where my writing has seen little of me. My current WIP, Whose Time Has Come, has been on the table now for over three years (much of that time in serious research). Though the rough was completed before we started our ‘adventure’ in January 2015, there has been no time to complete the editing.

This is partly because the new book is a much longer, much more complicated story than ‘The Performance’ or ‘In the Mean Time’. It is also a departure from the genre of my first two books, embracing the historical, as well as fantasy and magic. (There will be a second book to follow it—and perhaps a third.)

Recently my kid, JP suggested, rather than hold off putting the entire first book out, splitting this lengthy tome into three parts. (Then do the same with the next book as well.) This felt so much more productive and manageable to me!

So, taking a break from the back breaking work of hauling boxes of books and clearing the land and cleaning rat shit from the garage, I have been focusing on splitting the book into three coherent parts and editing Part One: Whose Time Has Come: Suspend Your Disbelief.

It is my goal to get Part One out on Kindle by the end of October with the second part by mid-December and the final part of the first book by February 2016.

Wish me luck.

PS  Big thank you to Beta readers Debra A., Cindy, Emma, Simone, Bobby, Lynnie, Jess and to all those who have encouraged me along the way.

OXOXOXOXOXO

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# 5 More and More– Families are Pulling Together!

A few days ago, Lynnie and I went down the hill into Sacramento to attend a memorial for my dear friend, Pat. Sitting in the back yard, we chatted with a young woman, in her mid thirties, who had once dated Pat’s younger daughter. In the course of the conversation, I asked her where she lived.

“I live in Grass Valley –with my folks,” she said. “I’m kind of embarrassed to say –at my age—that I live with my folks…”

“You know,” I said to her, “more and more, families are pulling together, creating a more sustainable and cooperative paradigm. When families come together it’s a win/win for everyone!” We went on to share with her about The Homestead. She seemed to enjoy the reframe.

Years ago, most families lived close to each other. It was the norm—it’s what families did. They actively and practically contributed to the families success. Over the years, family connections have become fragmented and the emphasis placed more on individual pursuits. There is nothing wrong with this, AND, we are excited to have this opportunity to return to that place where families can actively, literally, physically support, encourage and really connect with each other. This is our goal at The Homestead—to create, together, a safe, cooperative, inspired, productive, FUN place, in which our family can live, grow and thrive.

We are excited and grateful that JP and Dusty (and hopefully Dusty’s mom) are participating in this adventure as well!!

Love you guys!

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